JOIN MAJOR GIFTS FUNDRAISING EXPERT, BETH ANN LOCKE FOR A NEW, LIVE WORKSHOP:
AFTER THE ASK:
How to Navigate the Yes, the No, the Not Yet and Everything After
You've made the Ask… Now learn what to say, what to do and when to ask again—whether your donor says yes, no or "not yet."
LIVE WORKSHOP:
Thursday, October 29th 11am PT / 1pm CT / 2pm ET
$47 investment includes live workshop & unlimited replay access.
You did it. You named the number…
And then your donor answered.
Maybe they said “yes”
— and you were so relieved, you said thank you and wrapped things up before confirming what the gift was for or how it would come in.
Maybe they said "not yet"
— and now you're not sure whether to follow up or give them space.
Or maybe they said “No”
— and you spent the next 72 hours replaying every word, questioning every move you made, wondering if you said the right thing, hoping the relationship isn’t a lost cause.
The Ask Is One Moment in the Relationship. What Happens Next Decides Where It Goes.
And responding well after the Ask is its own distinct skill.
Sound familiar? 😬
It’s not your fault if you haven’t learned this yet. But it's time for that to change.
INTRODUCING:
AFTER THE ASK
This live workshop will show you how to stay aligned with the donor after the Ask, honour their answer, and keep building the relationship from there.
In this instantly actionable workshop, you'll discover:
You’ll walk away knowing what to say and do after a Yes, a No or a Not Yet, and how to decide when it’s right to ask again—even if right now the donor’s answer is the part you dread most.
This brand new workshop is taking place LIVE, on Thursday, October 29th, at 11am PT / 1pm CT / 2pm ET.
We’ll spend 60 minutes on teaching, working through the five steps in order, followed by 30 minutes of live coaching and Q&A.
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Registration includes live workshop + unlimited replay access. You'll receive a calendar invitation and instructions on how to prepare as soon as you sign up.
Registration includes live workshop + unlimited replay access. You'll receive a calendar invitation and instructions on how to prepare as soon as you sign up.
Hi, I’m Beth Ann Locke
I spent 30 years as a frontline fundraiser before transitioning to coaching fundraisers on how to close more major gifts.
I've personally raised more than $75 million dollars for organizations ranging from universities to hospitals, from the arts to human services, in both the US and Canada.
Here's what I know after all that time:
The biggest gifts never come from a perfectly worded ask letter. They come from a conversation where you actually said the number out loud.
If you've ever practiced your Ask in the shower and then chickened out in the meeting, you don't have a confidence problem!
You have a gap in your skill-set that's costing you time & impact when it comes to major gifts.
And that's exactly the gap this workshop is going to close.
He'd Been Chasing a Funder for Years. One Ask Later, She Committed to $437,500.
Craig Nason had a funder he'd been pursuing for years.
He believed there was a bigger gift somewhere in that relationship — he just didn't know how to get there, what to actually say, or how to move the conversation from “Thank you for your support” to confidently naming a number.
So he brought the situation to me.
And instead of theory, I gave him specific language and scripts for that exact conversation. Not just the strategy behind it —the actual words to say.
Craig used my approach for his Ask.
And then he walked away with a five-year, $437,500 pledge — from a funder he'd been trying to reach for years.
For a mostly solo fundraising shop, it was one of the most substantial wins they'd ever hadFor a mostly solo fundraising shop, it was one of the most substantial wins they'd ever had.
That's what happens when you finally have the words (and the confidence) to lead the conversations you've been avoiding.
Craig’s story isn’t a one-off.
Cristina Fragale did it at Preston High School — landing their largest single gift ever: $100,000.
Lorie Fees used my approach to execute an end-of-year request for funding that resulted in several additional gifts from donors at the $50,000 level.
With more confidence in her approach, Palmer Colson helped close some of the biggest gifts her organization had ever received.
When you know how to lead the conversation, frame the impact and actually make a confident, values-based Ask, you can create meaningful impact & real momentum for your organization.
Results my clients have achieved using the language and approach I'll share in this new live workshop:
“Beth Ann has the ability to really listen to your situation and to the way you're describing it, and then give you language that says the same thing differently — but in a way that's far more productive than what you were using before.
When I started writing down everything she said and trying it out with donors, it was like a light bulb went off for them as to why they should engage in the cause.
There are phrases she’s given me that I wouldn’t use any other wording for, because hers are perfect — and they get results.”
Lorie Fees
Director of Major Gifts
Children's Hope Alliance
Statesville, North Carolina
"While working with Beth Ann, I helped close a $1 million gift, another at $250,000, and another for $200,000 from a private foundation.
These are some of the largest gifts we have closed! Beth Ann, your guidance and support gave me the confidence and support to succeed. I am so grateful for you!
PALMER COLSON
DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT
HISTORIC COLUMBUS
COLUMBUS, GEORGIA
“When I started coaching with Beth Ann, I was in a new role working with different donors and hoping to make a change in how we approached them. Her approach in working with donors resonated immediately — it is donor centric and human-first.
Beth Ann encouraged me to put myself out there more, and make an Ask even when I felt I wasn't ready, which resulted in more funds. I was particularly nervous about an In Memory donor and Beth Ann helped me deepen this relationship by crafting how to talk to them.”
adele wang
SENIOR PHILANTHROPY OFFICER
COVENANT HOUSE
VANCOUVER, BC
Stop wondering what to say when the moment finally comes — and start walking in with the words already in hand.
REGISTER NOW FOR THIS NEW, LIVE WORKSHOP:
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 1st at 11am PT / 1pm CT / 2pm ET
REGISTER NOWRegistration includes the live workshop + unlimited replay access.
You'll receive a calendar invitation and instructions on how to prepare as soon as you sign up.
Will this live workshop help you lead your next donor conversation to a confident Ask?
“Beth Ann was instrumental in helping us secure our largest donation to date of $100,000”
“Beth Ann was instrumental in helping us secure our largest donation to date of $100,000, in addition to some smaller ones ranging in $20,000 - $40,000. Previously our largest donors were those who donated between $250 - $1,000. This donor has since gone on to make her $100,000 gift annually!
Beth Ann was patient with my limited knowledge and guided me in so many ways. It was evident that Beth Ann was truly invested in my success. She followed up with me, helped me to organize my thoughts and my Asks. She even mentored me for a phone call right before a call to a major donor.
If you’re seeking the guidance of an expert who will also provide a personal, hands-on approach and someone who is sincerely genuine, then Beth Ann is the person for you.”
cristina fragale,
senior director of recruitment & development
preston high school
the bronx, ny
Questions I often hear from fundraisers (before they lead their next big Ask)
Is this workshop going to give me the exact words to use in my next Ask?
Is this workshop going to give me the exact words to use in my next Ask?
I already purchased Signals First — how is this different?
I already purchased Signals First — how is this different?
I'm new to major gifts — is this too advanced for me? Or will this be too basic if I’ve got a lot of experience under my belt?
I'm new to major gifts — is this too advanced for me? Or will this be too basic if I’ve got a lot of experience under my belt?
Will this apply to MY organization? We're small / niche / just getting started.
Will this apply to MY organization? We're small / niche / just getting started.
I don't have a campaign or “big reason” to ask right now — is this still for me?
I don't have a campaign or “big reason” to ask right now — is this still for me?
What do I need to have done before the Ask for this approach to work?
What do I need to have done before the Ask for this approach to work?
What if I can't make it live?
What if I can't make it live?
If this is worth my time, why is it only $97?
If this is worth my time, why is it only $97?
What exactly will I get from this again?
What exactly will I get from this again?
THE ASK, ALIGNED:
How to Lead Donor Conversations to a Confident, Values-Based Ask
NEW, LIVE WORKSHOP:
Thursday, October 1st at 11 am PT / 1 pm CT / 2 pm ET
$97 investment includes live workshop + unlimited replay access
You'll walk away from this 60-minute session with:
Come with a donor in mind and by the time we're done, you'll have your own number and your opening line ready to go for the very next conversation you have.
Registration includes live workshop + unlimited replay access.
You'll receive a calendar invitation and instructions on how to prepare as soon as you sign up.
Questions? Send us an email at [email protected]
What Fundraisers Said in the Live Chat During My Last Workshop, The Ask, Aligned: